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By Lakshmi Chaudhry | AlterNet
Were at the bottom of the pile, right along with black women, said the young Taiwanese American, his face red with frustration. He was speaking out at a local dinner/discussion event titled Mating and Dating in the Asian American Community. The rage among the men in that room was palpable as they spoke of a lifetime of sexual invisibility in a culture that constructs them as either effeminate or repulsive.
The sexual marketplace is a minefield for people of color. Our choice of bed partners is defined by a racial hierarchy that places Anglos squarely at the top. They determine whos hot and whos not for the rest of us. Asian men, unfortunately, just dont cut it. Like the geeky Long Duck Dong who chases after a horrified Molly Ringwald in Sixteen Candles, popular culture regards them as sexual untouchables. No wonder then that so many of my Asian Pacific American girlfriends grew up lusting after white guys.
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